The Real Reasons for Your Child's Behavior (A Science-Based Approach with Dr. Mona Delahooke)
Oct 1, 2019
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Dr. Mona Delahooke, a pediatric psychologist, discusses children's behaviors as signals of underlying issues. She emphasizes the importance of compassion and understanding in addressing challenging behaviors. The podcast explores brain science and empathy in parenting, highlighting the impact of emotional states on behavior.
Children's disruptive behaviors are signals of underlying issues, not intentional misbehavior.
Understanding a child's neurological state helps parents respond effectively and foster deeper connections with their children.
Deep dives
Benefits of Audiobooks for Kids
Audiobooks are a beneficial and engaging form of entertainment for children, especially during late afternoons or on long journeys. Unlike passive media, audiobooks actively stimulate a child's imagination and enhance listening and language skills. Platforms like Audible offer a wide selection of titles, from classics like Where the Wild Things Are to newer releases, allowing members to choose a free audiobook monthly.
Mona de la Hook's Career Journey
Mona de la Hook, a pediatric psychologist, shares her professional journey spanning over 30 years, focusing on children with behavioral challenges and developmental differences. Transitioning to working with infants and toddlers, Mona's training in infant mental health revolutionized her approach, emphasizing the interconnectedness of the body and brain. Through her book 'Beyond Behaviors,' Mona aims to help parents understand the complexities of their children's behaviors, offering insights based on brain science and compassion.
Understanding Child Behaviors through Neuroception
Mona delves into neuroception, highlighting how children respond to comfort levels subconsciously, leading to different behavioral paths known as the 'green,' 'red,' and 'shutdown zones.' By recognizing a child's neurological state, parents can tailor their responses effectively, fostering a supportive and understanding environment. Mona's emphasis on parental presence, tone, and compassion as therapeutic tools underscores the significance of interpreting behaviors beyond surface reactions, promoting deeper connections with children.
In this episode: Janet welcomes Dr. Mona Delahooke, a pediatric psychologist who works with children and teens with behavioral challenges and developmental differences. Mona’s compassionate approach to therapy is based on brain science. She describes disruptive behaviors as “just the tip of the iceberg,” important signals a child may be sending that are symptoms of an underlying issue. This is common ground for Janet, as she has long held that many behaviors which parents deem negative are rarely motivated, intentional, or consciously anti-social. They are, in fact, reflections of a dysregulated emotional state which needs to be acknowledged.
Mona’s new book is available on Amazon: “Beyond Behaviors: Using Brain Science and Compassion to Understand and Solve Children's Behavioral Challenges.”
For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ.
Paperbacks and e-books are available at Amazon.
Also, Janet's exclusive audio series "Sessions" is available for download. This is a collection of recorded one-on-one consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (www.SessionsAudio.com).
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