Dr. Ramani, a renowned clinical psychologist and expert on narcissism, dives into the complex world of narcissistic relationships. She discusses the damaging effects of verbal abuse and the myth that words can't hurt. Learn her DEEP technique to shield yourself from manipulation and the importance of safeguarding your vulnerabilities. Dr. Ramani also explores the emotional toll of narcissistic parents and partners, urging the need for boundaries. Plus, discover how to recognize toxic dynamics while striving for personal growth.
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Words Hurt Deeply
Words hurt far more than "sticks and stones" as emotional pain affects the psyche deeply.
Emotional and verbal abuse often goes unnoticed but can break a person's spirit over time.
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Use DEEP Rules
Use the DEEP rules: Don't Defend, Engage, Explain, or Personalize when facing narcissistic attacks.
Maintain your sense of reality and refrain from taking their manipulation personally.
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Guard Psychological Passwords
Guard your deepest vulnerabilities like passwords; don't share them before trust is earned.
Narcissists weaponize vulnerabilities shared during love bombing or early phases against you later.
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This is a Fan Fav episode. Strap in, my friends—because today is a masterclass on navigating conversations with the narcissists in our lives. Whether it’s a parent, a partner, a boss, or a long-time friend, licensed clinical psychologist and viral expert Dr. Ramani is back in the Women of Impact hot seat. She’s breaking down exactly what NOT to do when faced with manipulation—and giving us the practical tools to protect ourselves, set unbreakable boundaries, and finally take back our power.
We’re diving deep into the emotional landmines of narcissistic communication, how to break the cycle of defending and explaining, why your psychological “passwords” must be guarded, and how to find support and healing—even if you’re not ready or able to walk away. Get ready for real talk, revolutionary strategies, and the reminder that you never have to serve up your pain to someone who will weaponize it against you.
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The real impact of words: Why “sticks and stones” is a harmful myth
00:06:25 – How to recognize and respond when someone tries to invalidate your reality
Dr. Ramani’s DEEP technique: Don’t Defend, Engage, Explain, or Personalize
The dangers of sharing your deepest vulnerabilities with a narcissist
00:13:44 – Weaponized vulnerability: When your wounds become someone else’s ammunition
Narcissistic parents and partners: Why history repeats itself and how to break free
Can you ever be happy in a narcissistic relationship? What joy looks like with limits
00:32:09 – “Hang time” and why breaking away gets harder the longer you stay
Top mistakes to avoid: Never call out a narcissist, and always have an exit strategy
Practical steps, resources, and daily support from Dr. Ramani’s powerful online community
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