REAL AF with Andy Frisella

965. Q&AF: Over-Planning Vs Action, Saying No Without Guilt, and Leading Employees With Bad Attitudes

Nov 17, 2025
Explore the fine line between preparation and procrastination, as disciplined action takes center stage. Learn how to say no without losing integrity and establish healthy boundaries. Discover how poor attitude can overshadow skill in employees, and why replacing negative influences is vital for a thriving culture. Andy also shares insights on how the best team members replicate success in others, enhancing their overall value. Tune in for practical advice that encourages action and prioritizes a positive work environment.
Ask episode
AI Snips
Chapters
Books
Transcript
Episode notes
INSIGHT

Preparation Can Become Paralysis

  • Preparation reduces anxiety but can become an excuse to never start if turned into perpetual planning.
  • Discipline is a learnable skill that beats waiting for approval or perfect readiness.
ADVICE

Build Discipline By Repeating Uncomfortable Actions

  • Train discipline by committing to uncomfortable actions and adhering to plans consistently.
  • Use small, repeatable mental training (like 75 Hard) to build the adherence skill permanently.
ANECDOTE

Waiting Years To Open A Second Store

  • Andy describes opening one retail store then waiting five years to open a second due to fear and hesitation.
  • He regrets the delay and says most fears vanish once you actually start.
Get the Snipd Podcast app to discover more snips from this episode
Get the app