Sexology EP350 - Unlocking Pleasure: Orgasms, Toys, & Communication
Sep 5, 2023
Sophie Saint Thomas, a journalist and author, discusses multiple orgasms, the diversity of sexual experiences, and the importance of focusing on pleasure beyond orgasms. They explore the role of psychological arousal and the pressure to have explosive orgasms. The podcast also touches on men faking orgasms, the use of handheld sex toys, and the significance of communication in queer relationships.
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Multiple Orgasms Are Not One Thing
- Multiple orgasms vary: they can be a blended ripple or several discrete events in one encounter.
- Sophie Saint Thomas emphasizes relaxing about definitions and enjoying varied sexual sensations beyond labels.
Relax; Make Pleasure The Focus
- Relax and stop making orgasm the sole goal during sex to improve chances of pleasurable experiences.
- Sophie Saint Thomas recommends focusing on sensations and removing performance pressure to make orgasms more likely.
Pleasure Extends Beyond Orgasm
- Sex contains many types of pleasure beyond orgasm, like nipple play, massage, oral, or erotic talk.
- Sophie Saint Thomas notes straight men often overemphasize orgasm and impose expectations, narrowing sexual possibilities.