Toddlers Made Easy with Dr Cathryn Why Your Toddler Resists Everything (And What to Do About It)
Oct 22, 2025
11:55
Struggling with toddler resistance? This episode breaks down why your child says "no" to everything and how to work with their natural instincts instead of against them.
What You'll Learn
- What the "You-Can't-Make-Me" reflex is and why it's actually healthy
- Why toddler brains react with automatic resistance
- Common triggers (commands, transitions, feeling rushed)
- What makes things worse (power struggles, taking it personally)
- Practical strategies for daily routines
Key Takeaways
- The reflex is developmental, not defiance
- Invite cooperation instead of demanding it
- Connection is the strongest antidote to resistance
- Stay calm and confident—you're the CEO
- Give choices to preserve their sense of control
Quick Tips
- Replace commands with invitations
- Give transition warnings
- Pause when resistance peaks
- Use collaborative language
- Fill their connection tank with one-on-one time
Resources
Help! My Child Will Only Poop In A Diaper Waitlist
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