Legendary British actor, Stephen Fry, discusses growing up in Norfolk, his mom's Jewish ancestry, embracing Englishness, and his struggles with bipolar depression. He delves into his influences, including Oscar Wilde, Gore Vidal, Auden, and more. The conversation also explores his personal journey, LGBTQ+ culture in literature, Brexit motivations, and reflections on government systems and life evolution.
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Family Fleeing Antisemitism
Stephen Fry describes his maternal grandparents leaving Central Europe for England due to rising antisemitism after WWI.
Many of his extended family later perished in the Holocaust, which shaped his family's history and identity.
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Mixture Of English And Jewish Roots
Fry recounts his father's deep English roots and a great-uncle who wrote about the family's Saxon origins.
He presents himself as a cultural mixture of English and Central European heritage.
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Identity Shaped By External Forces
Fry says his Jewish identity was cultural rather than religious and shaped by external definitions.
He notes that antisemitism historically defines who is considered Jewish more than self-definition does.
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Stephen Fry is a legendary British actor, comedian, director, writer, and narrator. His TV shows include “A Bit of Fry & Laurie,” “Jeeves and Wooster,” and “Blackadder,” and his films include Wilde, Gosford Park, and Love & Friendship. His Broadway career includes “Me and My Girl” and “Twelfth Night.” He’s produced several documentary series, including “Stephen Fry: The Secret Life of the Manic Depressive,” and he’s the president of Mind, a mental health charity. He has written 17 books, including three autobiographies, and he narrated all seven of the Harry Potter books. You can find him on Substack at The Fry Corner — subscribe!
For two clips of our convo — on the profound pain of bipolar depression, and whether the EU diminishes Englishness — pop over to our YouTube page. Other topics: growing up in Norfolk; his mom’s Jewish ancestry in Central Europe; her dad facing anti-Semitism after fighting in WWI and coming to England to train farmers; embracing Englishness; family members lost to the Holocaust; Disraeli; the diversity of Tory PMs; Stephen’s wayward youth; wanting to become a priest as a teen; growing up gay in England; the profound influence of Oscar Wilde and his trials; Gore Vidal on puritanism; Cavafy; Auden; E.M. Forster; Orwell; Stephen’s bipolarism; the dark lows and manic highs; my mum’s lifelong struggle with that illness; dementia; her harrowing final days; transgenerational trauma; Larkin’s “This Be the Verse”; theodicy; the shame of mental illness; Gen Z’s version of trauma; the way Jesus spoke; St. Francis; the corruption and scandals of the Church; Hitchens; the disruption of Silicon Valley and the GOP; Chesterton’s hedge metaphor for conservatism; Burke and Hayek; Oakeshott; coastal elites and populist resentment; the Iraq War and the 2008 financial crisis; Stephen writing jokes for Tony Blair; Brexit and national identity; Boris Johnson; Corbyn and anti-Semitism; Starmer’s victory and his emphasis on stability; Labour’s new super-majority; and Sunak’s graceful concession.
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