The Psychology of your 20s 363. Let people have the wrong impression of you ft. Eli Rallo
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Dec 12, 2025 
Eli Rallo, an author and content creator known for her insights on life in your twenties, shares her journey from aspiring artist to thought leader. She discusses the challenges of managing public perception and the value of letting people misunderstand you. Eli emphasizes the importance of delusion in ambition and reframing competition in influencer culture as community success. She also reflects on handling criticism, the nuances of finding the right partner, and the necessity of living in the present.
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Balance Realism With Productive Delusion
- Mix realistic planning with a bit of delusion to reach big goals.
- Use realism to ground you and delusion to fuel bold action.
Choice Overwhelm Is A Privilege
- Treat having many options in your 20s as a privilege, not a problem.
- Choose one focal priority each season and accept the sacrifices it requires.
Ask Yourself What You Really Want
- Ask yourself what you truly want if outside opinions disappeared.
- Let that honest answer guide which path you start with.
