Becoming You with Suzy Welch Can You Love Someone Without Losing Yourself? with Erin and Abe Lichy
Oct 21, 2025
Join Erin Lichy, entrepreneur and media personality from The Real Housewives of New York, and her husband Abe as they navigate love, ambition, and individuality. They candidly discuss how shared and differing values impact their relationship. From the importance of maintaining personal identity while married to prioritizing fun and intimacy amid parenting, their conversation sheds light on nurturing a healthy partnership. With practical takeaways for connection, they reveal how to stay true to yourselves while growing together.
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Values Reveal Hidden Authenticity Gaps
- The Values Bridge maps ranked personal values and how fully we express them, revealing gaps between who we are and how we live.
- Suzy says compassionate self-awareness lets people understand themselves and their relationships better.
A Fast, Certain Beginning
- Erin and Abe met in their twenties through mutual connections and knew early they were meant for each other.
- Abe asked Erin's father's permission within months and they married about two years later.
Large Gaps On World-Change Desire
- Erin's top values include voice, family centrism, and radius, but she shows large expression gaps—especially on radius.
- Suzy notes many people feel they aren't changing the world as much as they'd like.