Life Kit Here's How Relationship Contracts Can Help Couples
Aug 2, 2021
The conversation dives into the innovative concept of relationship contracts, empowering couples to articulate their needs and expectations clearly. This unique approach encourages active collaboration and thoughtful communication, steering away from passive romantic ideals. The hosts discuss how these agreements can tackle various topics, from household responsibilities to intimacy, ensuring fairness in partnerships. They highlight the evolving nature of relationships and the importance of revisiting these contracts to foster understanding and connection over time.
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Personal Experience with Contracts
- The host, Andy Tagle, and their partner, Andres, use a relationship contract.
- They discuss and revise it regularly, addressing topics like chore distribution.
Love as a Contract
- Every relationship has implicit terms and conditions, whether acknowledged or not.
- Creating a contract makes these terms explicit, fostering a sense of shared responsibility.
Framing the Contract
- Approach the contract as an agreement or goal-setting exercise with your partner.
- Frame it as a way to express needs and collaborate, not as a legally binding document.