Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - Is This Survivor's Guilt?
Nov 27, 2023
In this insightful conversation, a man seeks guidance from Esther Perel about his complex bond with his birth mother and the weight of survivor's guilt. He navigates the emotional landscape of caregiving while reconciling his successes with her struggles. The discussion touches on the intricate dynamics of familial love, gratitude, and the challenge of embracing joy amid personal pain. As he untangles his guilt and identity, listeners are invited to reflect on the ties that bind us, revealing the interpersonal factors that shape our emotional journeys.
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Caller's Troubled History
- The caller's biological mother, a meth addict, contacts him about her suffering.
- He grapples with survivor's guilt over his successful life.
Source of Guilt
- The caller feels his success is tied to his birth mother's suffering.
- Esther Perel notes this guilt doesn't originate from the mother.
Professional Identity and Healing
- Being an acupuncturist triggers the caller's pain and self-doubt.
- He ties his professional success to healing patients and alleviating his mother's suffering.