How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett Introducing The 6 Icks: A New Dating Framework to Never Be Creepy—and Always Flirt with Charm
Dec 4, 2025
35:06
Chances are, you freeze up around women because you’re afraid of seeming weird or creepy. You just don’t want to give women “the ick,” right? In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett proudly unveils his new framework: The 6 Icks—the 6 core behaviors that creep women out. Once you know them, you’re free to make confident, calibrated moves without seeming pushy or inappropriate.
Episode Highlights:
02:45: The Moment Connell Learned How to Approach with Charm, Not Creepiness
12:15: The Sex Object Ick: Leading with Sexual Comments that Objectify Women
13:05: The Too Timid Ick: Hesitant, Fearful Energy that Feels Uncomfortable
14:20: The Me-First Ick: Making It About What You Want, Rather than a Win-Win
15:22: The Try-Hard Ick: Desperate Bragging, Instead of Authentic Core Confidence
16:35: The Signal-Blind Ick: Missing or Ignoring Her Cues and Escalating the Wrong Way
20:01: The Agenda Ick: Using Manipulative Tactics & Ignoring Her Boundaries
BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU MEET WOMEN AND FLIRT WITH CHARM:DatingTransformation.com
Episode Highlights:
02:45: The Moment Connell Learned How to Approach with Charm, Not Creepiness
12:15: The Sex Object Ick: Leading with Sexual Comments that Objectify Women
13:05: The Too Timid Ick: Hesitant, Fearful Energy that Feels Uncomfortable
14:20: The Me-First Ick: Making It About What You Want, Rather than a Win-Win
15:22: The Try-Hard Ick: Desperate Bragging, Instead of Authentic Core Confidence
16:35: The Signal-Blind Ick: Missing or Ignoring Her Cues and Escalating the Wrong Way
20:01: The Agenda Ick: Using Manipulative Tactics & Ignoring Her Boundaries
BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU MEET WOMEN AND FLIRT WITH CHARM:DatingTransformation.com