The Dr. John Delony Show

My Wife Had an Affair With Another Woman

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Apr 23, 2025
A man grapples with the emotional fallout of discovering his wife's affair with a female coworker, raising questions of trust and betrayal. A woman feels conflicted about discussing her fiancé's recent weight gain, highlighting the sensitivity needed in such situations. Another caller contemplates pausing her wedding plans due to her partner's mental health struggles. Lastly, a wildlife conservationist struggles to balance his career aspirations with his upcoming marriage, showcasing the complexities of personal fulfillment and relationships.
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ANECDOTE

Husband’s Discovery of Affair

  • Derek discovered his wife had a physical and emotional affair with a lesbian coworker shortly after their first anniversary.
  • The wife showed signs of guilt but remained emotionally involved, and Derek grappled with trust and betrayal issues.
ADVICE

Trust and Reality Check

  • If your spouse lies, cheats, and hides things repeatedly, they likely do not want the marriage you envision.
  • Accept the reality that you cannot build a marriage without complete faith and trust in your partner.
ADVICE

Addressing Partner's Health

  • Speak honestly to your partner about health concerns, focusing on love and concern without judgment.
  • Set boundaries and consider pausing major commitments like marriage if your partner refuses help and endangers their health.
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