Conscious Kink with Ms. Elle X The Pain Point of Long-Distance D/s
Sep 17, 2022
Silver and Suede, a dedicated submissive navigating a long-distance D/s relationship, joins to discuss the challenges of emotional connection and boundaries. They share insights on the importance of communication in managing attachment and the impact of personal history on their dynamics. The conversation emphasizes prioritizing self-reflection and well-being, encouraging submissives to advocate for their happiness. Listeners gain valuable tips on establishing empowering boundaries while fostering a healthy, resilient connection.
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Silver and Suede's D/s Journey
- Silver and Suede shares her long-distance D/s relationship experience after 18 months.
- She illustrates struggles from past abusive marriage impacting her BDSM and emotional needs.
Set Boundaries and Assess Pain
- Communicate desires vulnerably without demands to strengthen connection.
- Reflect on how much emotional pain you're willing to endure in a dynamic with clear boundaries.
Kindness Feels Like a Revelation
- Experiencing basic kindness feels overwhelming after chronic mistreatment.
- Normal nurturing in a dominant is mistaken for extraordinary due to past trauma.