399. The Libido Lowdown: 11 Facts That Might Surprise You

When most people think about sexual libido, the first thought often goes straight to the physical aspect of things such as “Why doesn’t my spouse have any sex drive?” or “Something must be wrong with them physically.” But what if a spouses desire to be sexual (libido) really isn't physical, but is tied to how they feel emotionally connected?

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the surprising reality that libido is not just about the physical desire, it’s more about being mentally and emotionally connected. They explore what really influences sexual desire in marriage, the misconceptions couples often have, and why understanding these underlying factors can completely shift the way you approach intimacy with your spouse.

You’ll learn:

• Why libido is is actually tied to how they feel emotionally, or the emotional connection.
• The mental and emotional factors that play a huge role in desire
• How stress, connection, and relationship dynamics can impact intimacy
• Ways to better understand your spouse’s needs and strengthen closeness

If you’ve ever wondered why your sex drive, or your spouse’s sexual desire doesn’t look the way you expect, this episode will give you clarity, encouragement, and practical insights to build a stronger, more connected marriage.

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