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Teal Swan

How Self Concept Gets in The Way of Your Deepest Need

Feb 22, 2025
Explore the internal conflict between societal expectations and personal needs. Delve into how suppressing your deepest desires intensifies inner turmoil. Discover strategies to challenge limiting beliefs and reclaim those vital needs. Learn the importance of embracing discomfort to achieve true well-being and thrive.
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Quick takeaways

  • Suppressing essential needs leads to emotional pain and a struggle between personal desires and societal expectations.
  • Cultural and familial beliefs profoundly shape self-concept, influencing individuals' perceptions of their needs and worthiness.

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The Process of Socialization and Suppressed Needs

Socialization begins at birth, teaching individuals which needs are considered acceptable and unacceptable within their social environment. This often results in the suppression of essential needs, leading to emotional pain and an internal struggle to conform to societal expectations. The pressure to be perceived as 'good' by one's social group causes individuals to deny and disown their true desires, creating a conflict between personal needs and social approval. As individuals navigate these challenges, they may feel compelled to act against their own needs, further intensifying their internal turmoil and sense of inadequacy.

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