Sam, an experienced mindfulness and social emotional learning teacher, talks about the Buddhist concept of right speech, focusing on truthful and non-harmful communication. She explores the impact of lying and suggests practicing noble silence for greater awareness in communication.
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'Right speech' or 'skillful speech' in the Eightfold Path entails being truthful and avoiding lies, slander, hateful speech, and gossip.
The podcast emphasizes the importance of speaking with intentionality, gentleness, and good timing to avoid harm and regret.
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Exploring the Eightfold Path
In this podcast episode, the speaker introduces the concept of the Eightfold Path, which is a way of living that reduces unnecessary suffering according to Buddhist teachings. The Eightfold Path consists of eight concepts starting with the word 'right' or 'skillful.' The speaker suggests substituting 'skillful' for 'right' to allow for a non-striving attitude. The speaker specifically focuses on 'right speech' or 'skillful speech,' which entails being truthful and avoiding lies, slander, hateful speech, and gossip. The importance of speaking with intentionality, gentleness, and good timing is emphasized. The episode provides examples of the potential harm caused by lying, such as causing others to act in ways that do not align with reality. The speaker also discusses the benefits of practicing noble silence to cultivate awareness of speech patterns and strengthen impulse control.
Practicing Skillful Speech
The podcast episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own habits of speech and consider areas for improvement. The speaker shares personal insights, highlighting the potential damage caused by lying and the sting of guilt or regret that can arise from deceptive speech. The importance of being more intentional and gentle in speech is emphasized. The episode suggests practicing periods of intentional silence, such as on a hike or during a retreat, to develop mindfulness of speech and enhance impulse control. The speaker also mentions a mindful communication course available in the app for further guidance. Listeners are invited to share their experiences with practicing skillful speech with the speaker through various platforms.
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Exploring Right Speech: Skillful Communication in Buddhism
Today, Sam begins her segment on the Eightfold Path, a group of Buddhist teachings designed to help us with whatever life throws our way. This first episode is all about using our words more mindfully.
Sam has taught mindfulness and social emotional learning to teens, families and adults all over the world for more than 12 years. She obtained her master’s degrees in clinical and educational psychology from Columbia University, and an M.S. in emotion science from Mid-Sweden University. You can reach out to Sam on Instagram here!