New Mindset, Who Dis? 725 - How to actually define a relationship (DTR)
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Aug 11, 2025 This discussion dives into the significance of understanding relationships through patterns and behaviors rather than just labels. The focus shifts from defining what a relationship is to examining how partners communicate and resolve conflicts. It's all about the dynamics that truly shape connections, revealing that clarity comes from the 'how' instead of the 'what'.
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Define Relationships By How Not What
- Case Kenny says stop asking "what are we" and ask "how are we" instead.
- Focus on patterns like conflict handling, love languages, and patience.
Labels Are Surface-Level
- Case Kenny warns labels are surface-level and won't create true clarity.
- A label can't replace daily behavior and mutual patterns.
Let Labels Follow Behavior
- Let labels be a byproduct of consistent, aligned behavior rather than the starting point.
- Case Kenny argues a healthy "how" creates natural clarity about status.
