How to Safely Explore BDSM & Kink (Professional Dominatrix Explains)

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Jun 13, 2025

In this enlightening conversation, Justine Cross—professional dominatrix and owner of Dungeon East—shares her decade of expertise in BDSM and kink. She demystifies common myths, especially those influenced by mainstream media, and emphasizes that BDSM is largely psychological. Justine highlights the critical role of consent, communication, and setting boundaries, making it clear that these are essential for healthy exploration. From beginner tips to advanced practices, she provides practical advice for safely incorporating kink into one’s intimate life.

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ADVICE

Omakase Approach to BDSM

Try a variety of beginner BDSM activities to find what you enjoy, like collaring, tying up, or spanking.
Keep doing what you like and stop what you don't to personalize your kink experience.

INSIGHT

BDSM is More Common Than Thought

Many think BDSM requires elaborate setups or specific types of people, but simple acts like spanking or dominance are already forms of power play.
BDSM is accessible and relatable for many, breaking common myths.

ANECDOTE

Pandemic Spurs New BDSM Explorers

Many newcomers come to Justine Cross's sessions post-pandemic, eager to explore BDSM and improve communication.
Sessions build skills like consent, negotiation, and boundaries, which also enhance vanilla sex and non-sexual relationships.

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