

How to Talk to People You'd Rather Hate (Loretta J. Ross)
27 snips Feb 13, 2025
Loretta J. Ross, an activist and professor known for her work in the human rights movement, discusses the transformative power of 'calling in' over 'calling out.' She shares insights from her decades of experience, emphasizing the importance of empathy and understanding in resolving conflicts. Ross explores the psychological roots of anger, the journey of personal transformation, and the role of kindness in activism. Through her belief in human goodness, she encourages self-forgiveness and optimistic engagement, fostering deeper connections across divides.
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Ineffectiveness of Call-Outs
- Call-outs are ineffective against those impervious to reputational harm.
- They mainly affect vulnerable individuals unfamiliar with current social justice terminology.
Floyd Cochran's Story
- Loretta J. Ross discusses Floyd Cochran, a former Aryan Nations spokesman.
- Cochran joined the group to feel significant, not due to initial hatred.
The Concept of 'Zeros'
- Loretta J. Ross identifies 'zeros', individuals with opposing worldviews.
- These individuals lack common vocabulary, hindering productive dialogue.