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Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda

Episode 304: How Dating Has Changed (feat. Ben Stuart)

Feb 3, 2025
Ben Stuart, author of "Single, Dating, Engaged, Married," shares his expertise on navigating various relationship stages and the evolution of dating today. He discusses how technology and societal changes have reshaped expectations in relationships, emphasizing clarity and honesty, especially during breakups. The conversation dives into the superficial nature of dating apps and the need for aligning core values to foster meaningful connections. Stuart's insights on facing life's challenges together highlight the importance of character and shared struggles in building strong relationships.
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Quick takeaways

  • Modern dating complexities stem from reduced face-to-face interactions due to social media, leading to confusion in initiating relationships.
  • Evaluating character, cause, and shared life goals is essential in assessing compatibility, with chemistry being a distant third.

Deep dives

Navigating Relationships in the Modern Age

The podcast emphasizes the complexity of modern dating, particularly among younger generations. Factors such as increased screen time and social media have diminished face-to-face interactions, making it harder for individuals to ask each other out. This shift has transformed traditional dating scripts, moving from clear protocols to confusion surrounding how to initiate relationships. Consequently, many young singles yearn for meaningful connections but find themselves stuck in a cycle of indecision and missed opportunities.

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