Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda Episode 304: How Dating Has Changed (feat. Ben Stuart)
Feb 3, 2025
Ben Stuart, author of "Single, Dating, Engaged, Married," shares his expertise on navigating various relationship stages and the evolution of dating today. He discusses how technology and societal changes have reshaped expectations in relationships, emphasizing clarity and honesty, especially during breakups. The conversation dives into the superficial nature of dating apps and the need for aligning core values to foster meaningful connections. Stuart's insights on facing life's challenges together highlight the importance of character and shared struggles in building strong relationships.
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Prioritize Compatibility and Shared Interests
- Prioritize evaluating compatibility and shared interests in dating.
- Pull back on physical intimacy early on to assess if you genuinely enjoy spending time together.
Dating in the Digital Age
- The rise of social media and smartphones has complicated dating for young adults.
- Traditional dating scripts have become less clear, making navigation more challenging.
Why Dating is Harder
- Increased online time reduces in-person interaction, hindering opportunities for dating.
- Shifting priorities, like prioritizing career over relationships, also contribute to this trend.
