Rena Malik, MD Podcast: Optimizing Health, Sex & Relationships with Science Backed Tips from Leading Experts Moment: Not all Masculinity is Toxic | How to Embrace Healthy Masculinity Ft. Bedros Keuilian
Jul 23, 2025
In this discussion, Bedros Keuilian, an entrepreneur and author known for his 'savage and servant' philosophy, dives deep into the nuances of masculinity. He emphasizes the importance of balancing strength with vulnerability and how this duality enhances personal relationships. Bedros shares insights on fatherhood and the essential rites of passage for sons, while also exploring the role of respect and love in men's relationships. The conversation highlights the need for genuine male camaraderie and the critical values needed for nurturing future generations.
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Savage and Servant Masculinity
- Masculinity balances being both a "savage" and a "servant," combining strength with vulnerability and service to others.
- This duality includes fierce protection and love, combined with emotional openness and support.
Masculinity Influences Attraction
- Attraction is linked to a man's strength and confidence; damage to one's 'savage' nature can reduce attraction.
- Women instinctively lower attraction to men who appear broken or less capable.
Embrace Male Vulnerability
- Men should embrace vulnerability to deepen relationships and improve intimacy.
- A supportive partner who values vulnerability can inspire men to be their best selves.
