334: [Soapbox] What do you do about the lack of sex in your relationship

In this episode of Better Sex, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, listeners are guided through the complexities behind the lack of sexual intimacy in relationships. Zimmerman discusses the factors that contribute to this issue, such as changes in brain chemistry, desire discrepancies, emotional connection, and life stressors. She provides insight into common feelings, like shame and inadequacy, and offers practical strategies for couples to improve their intimate lives. Emphasis is placed on the importance of addressing relationship problems, rediscovering emotional connection, adapting to changes, and open communication without blame. Professional help is recommended for persistent issues, with advice on seeking certified sex therapists. The episode aims to reassure couples that they are not alone and provide actionable steps to enhance their sexual and emotional bonds.

00:00 Introduction to Better Sex Podcast

00:57 Understanding the Lack of Sex in Relationships

01:41 Normalizing Sexual Struggles

03:12 Addressing Desire Discrepancies

04:13 Identifying Relationship Strengths

06:13 Common Reasons for Reduced Sexual Activity

13:06 Rebuilding Emotional and Physical Connection

19:43 Seeking Professional Help

21:16 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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More info and resources:

Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast

Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast

How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com

The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com

The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com

Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com

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