Theology in the Raw

What Happens When You Say Women Should Have Agency and Influence in the Church: Aimee Byrd

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Sep 8, 2025
Aimee Byrd, an author and speaker known for her insights on biblical gender roles, discusses her complex relationship with the evangelical church. She shares personal experiences of navigating misogyny in church leadership and advocates for women's dignity and agency in ministry. Aimee also reflects on the emotional challenges faced while advocating for change within traditional settings. With humor and vulnerability, she offers a fresh perspective on faith, healing from spiritual abuse, and the importance of community engagement in the evolving landscape of church dynamics.
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ANECDOTE

Early Church Formation And Theological Vigor

  • Aimee Byrd grew up in conservative Southern Baptist settings and later developed strong theological interest in college.
  • That zeal pushed her into Presbyterianism where she sought deeper theological education and involvement.
ANECDOTE

Rainy Night That Sparked A Book

  • Aimee described being left to walk alone in a sketchy, rainy alley after an event while two male colleagues declined to walk her to her car.
  • That moment spurred her to write Why Can’t We Be Friends? about dignity, appearances, and cross-gender friendships in church.
INSIGHT

Benevolence Framing Can Mask Subordination

  • Byrd initially embraced complementarianism as benevolent male leadership focused on sacrificial service.
  • Over time she saw theological arguments used to justify women's subordination rather than mutual benevolence.
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