Normalizing Non-Monogamy - Interviews in Polyamory and Swinging

Ep 342 - Mrs. N + Mr. N (Vanilla to Vixen)

May 29, 2024

Mrs. N and Mr. N share their 20-year journey exploring swinging and hotwifing, going from fantasy to reality. They discuss healing both physically and emotionally through non-monogamy, host a podcast, and have written a book. Their open communication has helped them grow closer and support others in the community.

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Quick takeaways

Exploring fantasies together strengthened their bond and deepened understanding of desires and boundaries.

Open communication and exploration helped Mrs. N heal physically and emotionally, enhancing intimacy with Mr. N.

Engaging in swinging created a supportive community, allowed for new experiences, and strengthened their relationship.

Deep dives

Starting the Journey of Self-Discovery

The couple embarks on a journey of self-discovery through their shared experiences in love, sex, and relationships. They initially began with fantasies and exploration within their relationship, which led to a deeper connection and understanding of each other's desires and boundaries.

Transformation and Unexpected Changes

00:42

Finding Community in Swinger Clubs

01:24

The Week of Visibility for Nominee

01:20

Introduction

2min

The Journey of Mr. and Mrs. N in Non-Monogamy

5min

Exploration of Non-Monogamy and Overcoming Intimacy Challenges

28min

Exploring the Swinger Lifestyle

20min

Exploring Self-Publishing and Unexpected Success

15min

Journey, Podcast Creation, and Supporting the Community

4min

Positive Impact of the Non-Monogamous Lifestyle

2min

Gratitude, Event Promotions, and Future Teasers

3min

Mrs. N and Mr. N have been together nearly twenty years and started fantasizing together early on in their partnership. Their rich fantasy life together eventually turned into a reality a few years into their relationship. Things moved very slowly for years and eventually they found their sweet spot exploring swinging and hotwifing, or as they like to call it... "The Naughty Hobby"

Their journeys in non-monogamy have been powerful in many ways for both of them. Before meeting one another, Mrs. N suffered with extreme pain during sex for many years and it created an immense amount of shame in her around sex and intimacy. The openness and communication they've fostered has helped them both heal physically and emotionally as they've grown closer together while adventuring together!

These two have also been busy helping others... They host a podcast and have written a book both under the name Vanilla to Vixen where they take listeners behind the scenes of their healing journey together. Definitely check out their podcast and pick up a copy of their book!

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