The Adam and Dr. Drew Show #567 - Big Bad Drew
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Nov 11, 2025 Dive into a conversation about oppositional defiance disorder, as Adam and Drew explore how certain personalities are drawn to Adam. They reflect on evolving relationships, particularly Adam's journey with his father. Callers share heartfelt stories, including one about a sibling's unexpected heart defect, while another seeks advice on Drew's shoulder pain. Listeners get practical tips for rehab and management, making for a thought-provoking and engaging discussion.
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Oppositional Defiance Is A Relational Loop
- Oppositional Defiant behaviors cluster around some people and can be strangely rewarding for others who engage them.
- Drew suggests we examine our own participation because attraction to that conflict sustains the cycle.
Leased Cars And A Pattern Of Refusal
- Adam leased luxury cars to his father for years until he cut him off after repeated manipulative behavior.
- The father treated winning the refusal as a victory and never admitted any remorse.
Defiance Overrides Practical Costs
- Oppositional people can harm themselves to avoid complying and often feel victorious rather than guilty.
- Drew frames it as a syndrome where proving 'I'm not your boss' outweighs practical consequences.