Avoid Preconceived Notions

Get rid of your preconceived notions. Napoleon advised against forming a fixed picture of the battle, highlighting how predictions can be a liability in fast-paced situations. This advice applies to fathers entering fatherhood with set ideas. Many dads envision doing things differently from their parents, only to realize there was often wisdom in their parents' approach. James Frey emphasized fatherhood as a continuous learning process, where adapting and being flexible are key. Fatherhood and family dynamics are unpredictable, requiring willingness to adjust and learn.