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Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse
Processing the Emotions Behind the Idealization, Devaluation, & Discard Phase of Abuse - Q&A With Tracy Malone (Author & International Educator)
Nov 4, 2022
Tracy Malone, an author and international educator, discusses the emotions behind the idealization, devaluation, and discard phases of narcissistic abuse. They explore the dangers of idealization in relationships and the importance of describing emotions during the devaluation phase. They also talk about the nonlinear healing process and upcoming projects. Listeners are provided with information on how to connect, engage, and find support within the podcast's community.
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- Idealization in relationships can lead to overlooking red flags and potential problems.
- Keeping a journal can help survivors of narcissistic abuse process emotions and gain clarity.
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Understanding Idealization in Relationships
Idealization in relationships occurs when we create a positive illusion about someone, exaggerating their virtues and ignoring their flaws. It is a psychological and biochemical process that often happens when we fall in love. During the honeymoon period, we tend to idealize our partners, viewing them as more talented or charming than they actually are. This happens because we may want to validate our past decisions or desires in life. For some, idealization continues out of fear or a need to change their own narrative. This idealization can lead to overlooking red flags or potential problems in a relationship.
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