5 signs you need to breakup + my views on sex & casual hookups
Sep 25, 2023
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This podcast covers the warning signs of a breakup, personal perspectives on sex and casual hookups, feeling drained and defeated in a relationship, prioritizing self-care, vocalizing feelings, feeling disrespected, lacking self-awareness, and having high standards in relationships.
Recognizing signs like repetitive negative behavior and constant anxiety can help determine when to end a relationship.
Decisions regarding casual hookups should prioritize emotional safety, trust, respect, and individual boundaries.
Deep dives
Signs of Knowing When to Let Go of a Relationship
Knowing when to let go of a relationship can be challenging, especially when we have a deep emotional connection with someone. Many people struggle to leave toxic situations, fearing loneliness or the loss of a special connection. Some common signs that it may be time to let go include being drained by repetitive negative behavior, feeling constant anxiety and uncertainty, recognizing that you deserve better, fearing being alone, feeling constantly unappreciated, and being consistently disrespected.
The Importance of Valuing Emotional Safety and Connection in Casual Hookups
When it comes to casual hookups and deciding when to engage in sexual activity, there is no one-size-fits-all answer. For the narrator, emotional safety and a deep emotional bond are crucial before becoming physically intimate with someone. Trust, respect, and the potential for a healthy relationship are important factors in their decision-making process. However, each person's perspective on casual hookups is subjective, and personal choice and individual boundaries should be honored and respected.
Understanding the Power of Energy Exchange
The narrator highlights the significance of energy exchange when engaging in sexual activity with someone. They share personal experiences where they didn't fully grasp the importance of energy and the impact it can have on emotions and well-being. The narrator now values and protects themselves by being more mindful of the energetic connections they create through physical intimacy. They emphasize the significance of feeling emotionally safe, having a deep connection, and valuing oneself and one's energy.
Trusting Your Own Timeline for Intimacy
The narrator encourages listeners to trust their own timeline and instincts when it comes to sexual involvement in a relationship. They discuss the pressure society can place on dating and intimacy, emphasizing that each individual is unique and should follow their own desires and comfort levels. The narrator shares personal experiences and acknowledges that there is no universal answer to when someone should sleep with a new partner. They suggest focusing on emotional safety, personal connection, and mutual respect when deciding to engage in sexual activity.
If you're in a sticky situation where you are attached to someone but you just can't seem to let them go, this episode covers the major warning signs and red flags that I personally feel could make or break a relationship. These are some of my dealbreakers that I find are helpful when deciding when to leave a relationship. In the second half of this episode, I talk about my views on sex and intimacy for the first time ever on the pod, and my perspective on casual hookups. If you enjoyed this episode, dm me @lyss! xx
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