The Art of Accomplishment When Will I Be Enough? (Coaching Session)
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Aug 2, 2024 A coaching session delves into what it means to feel "enough" in relationships. Themes of self-love and the balance between vulnerability and control emerge. The conversation explores insecurities tied to worthiness and connections. Listeners are encouraged to embrace imperfection and emotional tenderness. Discussions revolve around the complexities of love and the importance of self-acceptance on the journey towards authentic relationships. The desire for deeper connections is examined, highlighting the pursuit of personal growth.
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Equating External Validation with Lovability
- The guest internalized the idea that being attractive and put-together guarantees a relationship.
- This belief, formed throughout life, equates external validation with lovability.
The Ever-Moving Ceiling of "Enough"
- Joe points out the ever-increasing standards the guest sets for herself.
- The guest admits that the "ceiling just keeps moving", highlighting her struggle to feel "enough."
Settling and the Savior Complex
- The guest's sadness stems from settling for less than she deserved in past relationships.
- She also recognizes a pattern of trying to "save" partners, hoping to create a space for them to become whole.