The Dr. John Delony Show I Love My Wife, but I Don’t Want to Be Around Her
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Jan 13, 2025 A husband grapples with fading attraction to his wife, igniting a discussion about intimacy in long-term relationships. Another participant shares her struggle with self-acceptance despite losing 100 pounds. Insights into rebuilding after job loss and navigating ADHD challenges highlight the emotional turmoil many face. The importance of establishing a supportive home environment and setting boundaries is emphasized, along with heartfelt advice on personal growth and resilience.
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Tyler's Marital Struggle
- Tyler, married for 18 years, describes losing the loving feeling for his wife over the past seven years.
- He now feels uncomfortable around her, even experiencing a negative visceral reaction to her presence.
Tyler's History of Trauma
- Tyler reveals a history of traumatic experiences with his wife, including instances of sexual assault during their dating period.
- He also describes her verbally abusive behavior after marriage and unhelpful advice from church leaders.
Prioritize Peace and Safety
- Dr. John Delony advises Tyler to prioritize his own peace and safety.
- He suggests establishing clear boundaries with his wife and seeking individual therapy to process his trauma.