F*** Jerry Lewis, an artist with complicated feelings about failure and success, discusses his decision to retire as an artist now that he's about to have a kid. They also touch on moving through the world as an amputee with cerebral palsy and the challenges of being overlooked in the arts industry. The speaker reflects on finding solace in hardcore music and expresses gratitude for the supportive community it provides, but also acknowledges potential dangers. They discuss their dislike for Jerry Lewis, debate best wrestlers, and touch on the Trump administration's policies on disabled people.
Artists should measure success beyond monetary gains and recognize the impact they have on others.
Treating people with disabilities with respect and dignity is crucial for a more compassionate society.
Underground music scenes can provide a sense of community and empowerment for individuals facing challenges.
Deep dives
Impactful Bands and Tragedy in the Scene
The caller reflects on the influential bands of the Bloomfield and Montclair area, such as Up, Up, Down, Down, Left, Right, Left, Right, Breather Resist, expressing gratitude for their impact. They also mention the recent tragedy in the scene, with the loss of Steve from Up, Up, Down, Down, Left, Right, Left, Right, and encourage listeners to donate to support his wife.
Challenges of Living with Cerebral Palsy and Amputation
The caller shares their experiences of living with cerebral palsy and being an amputee, emphasizing that it impacts every moment of their day while also highlighting the importance of treating people with disabilities with respect and dignity. They express their hope for a more compassionate and understanding attitude toward disabled individuals in society.
Reflections on Artistic Success and Quitting
Chris Gethard pushes back against the caller's self-perception of failure as an artist, emphasizing that success cannot be solely measured by monetary gains or mainstream recognition. He urges the caller to consider the impact they have had on others through their art and the importance of not discounting those meaningful connections, while acknowledging that quitting can be difficult, especially with the impending arrival of their child.
Life with Cerebral Palsy and the Power of Music
The caller discusses his experience growing up with cerebral palsy and how he found solace and empowerment in underground music, particularly in the hardcore punk scene. He emphasizes the sense of community and acceptance he found within this music community. The caller expresses his gratitude for the support he received and the importance of breaking cycles and creating a better future for his own children. He also highlights the impact of the Trump administration on disabled individuals and urges people to vote and get vaccinated to protect and support marginalized communities.
Love, Appreciation, and Hope for the Future
In this heartfelt conversation, the caller expresses his love and appreciation for his wife, who has been his source of support and care throughout their relationship. He also shares his deep connection to music and recommends listeners to check out the albums of two important musicians in his life. The caller ends by emphasizing the importance of staying hopeful, recognizing that creativity and new opportunities can arise at any moment, and encourages everyone to continue learning and growing.
This week’s caller and Gethard have a lot in common. Two North Jersey guys with ties to the local music scene, who work hard to make their art, and have complicated feelings about how they define failure and success. They talk about all of this, plus the caller’s decision to retire as an artist now that he’s about to have a kid, and how all of this affects and is affected by moving through the world as an amputee with cerebral palsy.
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