In the Market with Janet Parshall People Skills
Jan 13, 2026
Debra Fileta, a licensed professional counselor and bestselling author, shares her expertise on interpersonal relationships. She discusses how our tech-driven world affects real connections and offers 31 transformational social skills. Debra emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in recognizing blind spots and improving interactions. She covers conversation depths, body language, and the significance of empathy. With practical tips on setting boundaries and effective communication, listeners are equipped to strengthen their relationships.
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People Skills As Intentional Witness
- People skills mean owning how you come across and intentionally conveying God's love to others.
- Debra Fileta frames people skills as learned, not fixed, abilities we can develop to represent Christ better.
Default Habits Can Be Relearned
- Most people adopt interpersonal behaviors by default from family and culture rather than by design.
- That means problem patterns are learned and therefore can be unlearned and replaced with healthier skills.
Match Conversation Level To Trust
- Gauge conversation depth: start with facts, then opinions, then feelings, then faith as trust grows.
- Avoid diving into emotions too early; match the level to the relationship and context.
