The School of Greatness “We Had to Create a Second Marriage” How to Heal a Relationship After Infidelity & Addiction | Carl Lentz
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Aug 2, 2024 
In this enlightening conversation, Carl Lentz, a former celebrity pastor, shares his journey of healing after infidelity and addiction. He discusses the crucial difference between shame and guilt, offering insights on personal growth. Lentz opens up about rebuilding trust and intimacy in his marriage, emphasizing honesty and communication. He also reflects on the emotional fallout of public scrutiny and the importance of self-acceptance. Through vulnerability, he highlights the path toward integrity and the power of forgiveness in transforming relationships.
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Shame and Intimacy
- Carl Lentz's biggest shame was lying to his wife, impacting their intimacy.
- He now treats shame with reverence and uses his experience to connect with others.
Shame vs. Guilt
- Shame is discouragement about others' opinions; guilt is recognizing wrongdoing.
- Healthy guilt propels you forward, while shame hinders progress.
Rise and Fall
- Carl Lentz led a high-profile church with a global reach, impacting many people.
- Infidelity and subsequent lies led to a public scandal and fallout.
