Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow A Candid Chat with Kink Veterans Pedro & Tink: Trust, Consent, and Dominance
Ep 373: A Candid Chat with Kink Veterans Pedro & Tink: Trust, Consent, and Dominance. Pedro & Tink are podcasters at The Kitchen Sink ENM & Kink Podcast, and both are also content creators. Summary
In this riveting episode, I sit down with Pedro and Tink, the dynamic duo behind the Kitchen Sink ENM and Kink podcast. We delve into their decade-long journey through ethical non-monogamy, swinging, and BDSM, uncovering their favorite kinks and pleasures (without guilt or shame), the significance of communication and consent, and their pearls of wisdom for newcomers to the lifestyle. Pedro has lived in the lifestyle for over 20 years so his experience in this way of life is quite extensive and varied. They generously and openly share about their introduction to kink and their past and current experiences living this lifestyle. Of special note is their love, affection, and compersion for each other. Their love story is a beautiful and fascinating one!
Key Highlights
- Pedro and Tink bring a wealth of experience from nearly a decade in swinging, polyamory, open relationships, and BDSM.
- They share a passion for various kinks, including impact play, degradation, humiliation, knife play, and golden showers.
- Pedro identifies as a dominant, while Tink is versatile as a switch, navigating both dominant and submissive roles.
- They stress the importance of communication, consent, research, and vetting players as the bedrock of all alternative lifestyle practices.
More about the Guests
Pedro
Meet Pedro, a seasoned dominant in the BDSM scene with loads of experience. His expertise spans impact play, degradation, humiliation, and knife play, pleasure torture, and enriching the lifestyle with his knowledge.
Tink
Introducing Tink, a switch who relishes both dominant and submissive roles in BDSM. Her explorations include impact play, degradation, and pegging, adding depth to her lifestyle experiences.
Action Steps
- Educate yourself on the nuances of swinging, polyamory, or BDSM before diving in.
- Prioritize open communication and explicit consent in every relationship dynamic.
- Experiment with different kinks and toys to discover what resonates with your personal desires. Connect further: http://thekitchensinkenmandkink.com Twitter @ksenmandkinkpod: http://twitter.com/ksenmandkinkpod
Listener Challenge
Embark on a personal journey to uncover your desires and limits. Engage in honest dialogue with your partner(s) and embrace new adventures that pique your curiosity.
Next Steps
Tune into the Kitchen Sink ENM and Kink podcast for insightful and personal conversations on the complexities and joys of ethical non-monogamy, swinging, and BDSM. Host Ruan Willow's books: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/
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