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Send us a textSeason 5, Episode 659: From Fantasy Worlds to Dark Romance with a Dominant Female Main Character: A Writer's Journey Through the Pandemic with Author MZ Rylan, an Indie Author who writes about powerful women, why choose,  and enemies to lovers.MZ Rylan: www.mzrylan.comBound by Her links www.MzRylan.com/boundbyherBound by Her (Affiliate links): https://amzn.to/47wNsK4Dive into an enlightening conversation between authors Ruan Willow and MZ Rylan as they explore the unexpected creative paths that emerged during the pandemic. MZ shares her fascinating transition from crafting intricate fantasy worlds to embracing the raw authenticity of dark romance, while both authors discuss the delicate balance of writing about sexuality and power dynamics in fiction.The episode tackles compelling topics including:The art of portraying mature, confident characters in romanceChallenging stereotypes around femininity, masculinity, dominance,  and submissionThe complexities of writing in third-person perspectiveNavigating platform censorship and trigger warningsMarketing challenges in the dark romance genreTheir candid discussion reveals how authors blend research, personal experience, and creativity to craft authentic stories that push boundaries while respecting reader sensitivities.Ready to peek behind the curtain of contemporary romance writing? Listen to this episode for an unfiltered look at the evolving world of romantic fiction and the authors who dare to challenge conventions.Key Takeaways:• The pandemic significantly shifted MZ Rylan's writing focus from intricate fantasy to dark romance, highlighting how external circumstances can influence creativity.  • The discussion challenges traditional stereotypes about masculinity and submission in literature, advocating for more diverse and nuanced character representations such as a dominant woman leader, femdom, and female lead relationships.• Curiosity is emphasized as a critical element in storytelling, reinforcing the idea that real-life experiences are fundamental to crafting compelling narratives.Support the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textSeason 5, Episode 658: Enjoy and excerpt from the book Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties, Doggy in the Hot Tub and Big Plans. The Winter Ball Continues: the night is winding down, but first for some fun in the hot tub!An Erotica Romance fiction Story of a Bisexual Couple who join an alternative lifestyle Sex Club where the leaders of the club throw sex parties at their house for their adventurous swinging members. Come on the journey as Mallory and Derek figure out how to have sexy fun with others while still being a devoted couple. This story contains polyamory, the swinging lifestyle, partner sharing, and kinky sex.Get the full audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretpartiesaudiobookThe ebook is on sale for a limited time only for $0.99 cents! Get it now: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretpartiesBook blurb:Mallory and Derek are a young mutually dedicated bisexual couple. They both love adventure and new experiences. It's what drew them to each other in the first place. They desire to explore more together, so they decide to join a swinger's alternative lifestyle club.Once the initial overwhelm wears off, they dive in to the insatiable group fun at the private parties, and don't look back. Their world opens up and they can't get enough. They have so much fun, their minds, and their climaxes, are blown to new heights. Life can't get any better. They make new friendships, and cultivate deeper ones that enrich their lives, while they work hard at being diligently respectful of their mutual boundaries.And all the party games, oh, that's mind-blowing and not stopping in its ever-expanding ecstasy! The couple is hooked!When a photographer is hired for one of the private parties and takes sexy pictures of Mallory with an older man who had become one of her regular play partners, Mallory's life, and career, take a turn for the unexpected. She finds herself lucky to be a huge overnight success as a content creator when she begins to post nude pics and spicy videos online. As she finds herself further entrenched in her life with her devoted partner Derek, her new older millionaire gentleman friend wants to be a permanent person in her life, too. Mallory is lucky, she's got two very supportive partners in her life!Who comes along for the full entrepreneurial ride she's on remains to be seen. However, one thing is for sure, she's taking this pleasure train for life. And whoever is by her side better hold tight because it's promising to be a wild trip!Tropes:  erotica, Polyamory love triangle, swinging, BDSM, D/s, multiple partner intimacy and relationships, impact play, intimate scenes, bisexuality, experimentation, and empowerment.Support the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEp 657: The Power, Art, and Politics of Erotic Romance Writing with Megan LandonDive into a fascinating conversation with linguist and author Megan Landon about the power of language in erotic and romance writing. From the subtle distinctions between word choices to the broader implications of language in storytelling, this episode uncovers the craft behind creating intimate narratives.Megan shares insights from her workshop "The Allure of Words," exploring how language affects pacing and sensuality in writing. The discussion tackles challenging topics including the stigmatization of erotica, the evolving landscape of romantic fiction, and the political climate affecting authors in the genre.The conversation extends beyond craft to address crucial industry issues: the changing dynamics of romance conventions, the importance of inclusive spaces, and the role of emotional intelligence in storytelling. Particularly poignant is the examination of how patriarchal structures affect both women and men in the literary world.Ready to explore the intricate world of erotic writing and its place in modern literature? Listen to this enlightening episode that bridges linguistics, creativity, and social commentary in the romance genre.*Tune in to discover how language shapes our understanding of intimacy and storytelling.*Key Takeaways: • Megan Landon emphasizes the significant impact of language in storytelling, particularly in the genre of romance and sci-fi fantasy erotica, which is often underestimated.  • The discussion highlights the challenges writers face regarding word choice due to the stigmatization of erotica, revealing a nuanced struggle for creative expression.  • The podcast explores the effects of patriarchy on both genders within the realm of erotic fiction, suggesting that it can shape emotional connections and societal perceptions in unexpected ways.About Megan:Megan Landon is an award winning writer of sci-fi and fantasy romance and er*t'ca. Her stories are inspired by nature, science, language, and magic. She has a Ph.D. in linguistics and loves to play with the shades of nuance that exist between magic and science. Megan's work has been recognized by the Seattle Erotic Arts Foundation; Fantasy, Futuristic, and Paranormal Romance Writers; Passionate Ink; Literally Lovesick; All the Filthy Details podcast; and the Golden Pigtails Awards.AUDIO RECORDING: Excerpt from Botany and Brujeria narrated by Lola Raine. meganlandon.commeganlandon.com/linksAudiobook excerpt Botany and Brujeria can be found at https://mybook.to/botanyOn Amazon (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3JD8nB8SOCIALS: Instagram, TikTok, Bluesky, Facebook: @meganlandonauthorSupport the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEp 655: Erotic Sensual Shorts and Scenarios Shower, Daddy, Peaking, Sensual ASMR, Ride the Experience Climax to Aftercare. This episode is full of mini erotic scenes, erotic poetry, spicy hot thoughts, scenes, and indulgent pleasure sounds. This is short little space of enjoyment, a pocket of self care, decompression, and a place for self care to destress. Take time for you mental health and sexual health everyday, don't skip. You are a whole person who deserves to exercise that wholeness that was given to you at birth, and that includes your sexuality. Enjoy the sensual sounds and ride the erotica, erotic fiction, spicy romance of this short little podcast episode. Pleasure is your birthright, take it baby, it's yours!Ways to promote your sexual health:think about sexuality daily, set aside timeromance is important in self play and partner timeenhance your relationships with audios, toys, lotions, oils, sexy videos, languagepay attention to your sexual health, sexual wellness sexual wellbeing at every turn, ready books, listen to podcastsself love and pleasure are important...always remember thatgive yourself consent for personal growth and self discovery,try restructuring your entrenched harmful thoughts by reducing thoughts and scripts of shame in your head while encouraging pleasure. This is sex ed for adults who grew up with loads of shame around sex, give yourself permission to ditch old views and learn new healthier ones.celebrate your humannessaccept and seek pleasure as a regular practicePodcast Host Ruan Willow: Current books on saleZesty Entanglements https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/zestyentanglementsServicing the Work Men: Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventuresMallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretpartiesGet 25% OFF of Ruan's books on her store site: for the month of August 2025: https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooksSupport the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEp 654:  Unpacking Masculinity with Jacob Tobia: Dive into a thought-provoking conversation with gender nonconforming writer and performer Jacob Tobia as they explore the complexities of manhood in today's society. Jacob, a member of Forbes' 30 Under 30 and the voice behind the non-binary character Double Trouble in Netflix's She-Ra, shares insights from their new book, Before They Were Men: Essays on Manhood, Compassion, and What Went Wrong, which releases on August 26, 2025. Affiliate link to the book https://amzn.to/3JuhaoSIn this episode, we discuss the need for compassion towards men, the impact of societal expectations on young boys, and the importance of redefining masculinity. Jacob's candid reflections on their personal journey and the cultural narratives surrounding gender challenge us to rethink our perspectives on manhood and the emotional struggles many face.Key themes include:- The harmful effects of toxic masculinity and the need for a shift towards safe masculinity- Understanding the struggles of young men and boys within the gender binary- The importance of empathy and connection in feminist discourse- Insights into the incel phenomenon and the need for compassionJoin us for this enlightening discussion that encourages listeners to foster understanding and healing in a world that often feels divided. Jacob's powerful message is one of hope, urging us all to create a kinder, more inclusive future.Connect with Jacob Tobia: https://jacobtobia.com/ on Instagram @jacobtobiaQuotes from Jacob Tobia"It is time I stop avoiding the heart of the work that I owe the world.""Men and boys are suffering spiritually under the gender binary now.""The term toxic masculinity is now a game of telephone and it's gone terribly.""We need to shift our conversation toward compassion for men.""Learning to have empathy for people who hurt you is not easy work."Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Current books on saleZesty Entanglements https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/zestyentanglementsServicing the Work Men: Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventuresMallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretpartiesGet 25% OFF of Ruan's books on her store site: for the month of August 2025: https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooksSupport the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEp 652: Ruan does erotic improv... Surprise Blow Job at the Restaurant Date Night Story! This story is immersive and hot hot hot! It's told in second person, meaning "You" and "I" are the subjects, and it has ASMR erotic sound elements. Enjoy this erotica fiction, an erotic audio fiction story; it's saucy spicy steamy romance! Stories about relationships with sex in them, because that's how romantic relationships are IRL. Open door and spicy romance subgenres my jam, if it's yours too, then you will love with sensual little date night storytelling experience!FREE EROTICA BOOKS ON AMAZON AUGUST 19-20,2025 ONLY! Check out the free book list and buy for $0 https://storyoriginapp.com/to/DxHlCa2Books mentioned in the podcast episode that are now on sale:Zesty Entanglements https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/zestyentanglementsServicing the Work Men: Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventuresMallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretpartiesGet 25% OFF of Ruan's books on her store site: for the month of August 2025: https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooksSupport the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEp 651: The Corkscrew and Other Spicy Tales: A Journey Through Sexual Liberation with Spicy Author Sam L. Feldman.Step into the vibrant world of 85-year-old author Sam L. Feldman as he shares his provocative perspectives on love, sexuality, and open relationships. In this captivating episode, Sam reads from his award-winning collection "Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances," treating listeners to "The Corkscrew," a story that masterfully blends sensuality with life experience. Affiliate link to Sam's book: https://amzn.to/4lqajtTThe conversation weaves through various themes, from the success of Sam's erotic bestseller to the importance of challenging societal norms around sexuality. Sam's 61-year marriage serves as a testament to his advocacy for open communication and the exploration of desires in relationships. The discussion touches on vital topics including:- The role of ethical non-monogamy in modern relationships, & ethical non monogamy marriage- Combating ageist beliefs about sexuality- The importance of maintaining intimate connections and communication- The power of erotic storytelling in challenging conservative attitudesReady to challenge your perspectives on love, relationships, and sexual freedom? Don't miss this enlightening conversation with a true pioneer of the sexual revolution.Key Takeaways:• Open relationships can be celebrated and embraced, challenging traditional views on sexuality.  • Communication is highlighted as the cornerstone of healthy relationships, even in humorous and unconventional contexts.  • Literature plays a significant role in promoting understanding and acceptance of diverse sexual experiences and desires.Timeline: 00:00:00 - Interview with Sam L. Feldman00:04:44 - Butch, Kathy, and Sugar's Night00:11:07 - Writing Erotic Tales and Inspirations00:13:00 - Miscommunication and Betrayal in Storytelling00:17:49 - Understanding Ethical Non-Monogamy00:21:51 - Sexual Revolution and Modern Relationships00:30:43 - Importance of Printing Your Story00:33:13 - Challenges in Sexuality After Mastectomy00:38:42 - Book Selling Challenges and Bikini Culture00:41:14 - Success and Challenges on TikTok00:43:27 - Promoting My Book Journey00:47:12 - Creating a Unique Erotic Narrative00:50:09 - Validation Through Award-Winning Writing00:52:18 - AI's Role in Creativity and Art01:00:24 - Understanding Opinions and Generational Differences01:03:18 - Empowerment Through Reading and WritingConnect with Sam L. Feldman: https://www.samlfeldman.com/ Quotes from Sam L. Feldman"Don't let them take the joy out of sex.""These stories may never be told again.""Communication is the key.""Sex can relieve stress, can relieve pain, it can boost moods."Support the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEpisode 649: Eating Pussy and Other Erotic Treats, erotic poetry, erotic poems, hot snippets, steamy scenes, and sexy spicy ASMR.  Enjoy spicy romance, spicy fiction, erotic romance, erotica fiction, and sensual ASMR sounds.Ruan's store, buy books directly from Ruan herself and get 25% OFF of books in August 2025 at https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooksSupport the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEp 648: Second Chances and Seasoned Romance: Writing Love Stories for the Over-40 Crowd, Get this book for FREE (for a limited time only) Come As You Are: A Gen X Romance https://amzn.to/3J6ne6YDive into my refreshing conversation with author Jess K. Hardy as she challenges the youth-centric world of romance fiction by championing love stories featuring characters over 40. Join us as we explore why midlife romance deserves more spotlight in contemporary and sci-fi fantasy genres.Hardy passionately argues that life experience enriches romance storytelling, drawing from her own journey as both a writer and a woman embracing her prime years. Our discussion delves into the liberating world of indie publishing, where diverse stories can flourish beyond traditional constraints.From navigating publishing challenges to balancing different formats (ebooks, audiobooks, and paperbacks), our conversation offers valuable insights into the modern author's journey. We share candid perspectives on writing processes, trope preferences, and the delicate art of crafting "spice" levels that resonate with readers.Ready to challenge your perspectives on age in romance? Tune in to this episode for an inspiring discussion about love, creativity, and the power of second chances.Enjoy the excerpt from the audiobook "Lips Like Sugar" at the end of the interview.Timeline:00:00:06 - Chatting with Author Jess K. Hardy00:03:37 - Challenges of Writing Midlife Romance00:05:26 - Indie Publishing and Diverse Voices00:10:37 - Character-Driven Plot Dynamics00:28:23 - Finding Errors Through Audiobook Narration00:32:44 - Writing Inspirations and Challenges00:40:54 - Struggles and Success in Storytelling00:43:46 - AI in Writing: Public Awareness00:46:31 - Challenges for New Authors00:48:05 - Final Thoughts and Book Promotions00:49:36 Excerpt from Lips Like SugarKey Takeaways:• Midlife characters are increasingly central in contemporary and sci-fi fantasy romance, challenging stereotypes about aging and love.  • The discussion highlights the unexpected empowerment found in writing for older protagonists, promoting a narrative shift in the genre.  • The balance between digital and physical book formats is evolving, indicating a dynamic change in indie publishing practices and reader preferences.Books: (affiliate links)Bluebird Basin Series https://amzn.to/4ors6UfCome As You Are: A Gen X Romance https://amzn.to/3J6ne6YLips Like Sugar https://amzn.to/45OxQ27Audiobook https://amzn.to/4lpmOpJWish You Were Here  https://amzn.to/3J0EwlZConnect with Jess K Hardy:https://jesskhardy.com/Support the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEpisode 647: The Drink Master, excerpt, A Heterosexual Slow Burn Forced Proximity Erotic Spicy Romance Novella. A romance author relaxes at a lodge, which is exactly what she needs, even after a whole weekend away. More relaxation, yes please. But when lingers too long eyeing up the eye candy resort bartender, she gets snowbound. He's so charming and accommodating that he keeps feeding her drinks while a winter storm rages outside. After the ending of her marriage, she's ready for some ultra spicy fun and she soon finds out this surprising Pleasure Dom expertly mixes up a date better than any measly drink he's ever given her. Her delights abound as she accepts his invitation to dinner.An erotic audio, erotic fiction piece, a holiday romance story of forced proximity and being at the right place at the right time.Tropes: Dom/sub role play, consent is sexy, hookup, midlife romance, dirty talk, holiday, Christmas romance, hungry for pleasure, mutual pleasure is mutual blissRuan's Payhip store, get 25% OFF during the month of August of 2025: https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooksThe Drink Master https://payhip.com/b/aWZwKSubscribe to the exclusive level of the podcast to get the full audiobook.Support the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423