

355. How to Reclaim the Desires You’ve Suppressed for Years w/ Dr. Robert Glover
What happens when you realize the life you’ve built isn’t fully yours? When the career, relationships, or goals you’ve been chasing were shaped more by approval and outside expectations than your own true desires?
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In this episode of the Decoding Success Podcast, I’m joined by Dr. Robert Glover, author of the international bestseller No More Mr. Nice Guy. Together, we unpack the hidden ways we suppress our desires, betray our authenticity, and live for approval — and more importantly, how to break free.
Dr. Glover shares:
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How to recognize the “lie coach” in your head that keeps you playing small.
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Why so many of us pursue goals that were never truly ours.
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The difference between emotional fusion and healthy differentiation (and why it’s the key to real freedom).
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How to start reclaiming your suppressed desires — without guilt, shame, or fear of rejection.
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Why authenticity is always a process, not a one-time choice.
Whether you’ve struggled with people-pleasing, codependency, or simply not knowing what you truly want in life, this conversation will give you permission — and the tools — to step into your full, authentic self.
🌐 Connect with Dr. Robert Glover:
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Instagram: @drrobertglover
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Website: drglover.com
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