The Practice of the Practice Podcast | Where Modern Psychology Meets the Business of Therapy What it Takes to be a Strong Father with Kirk & Casey Martin | POP 1283
Oct 27, 2025
Kirk and Casey Martin, dynamic duo behind Calm Parenting, delve into the art of strong fatherhood. They share transformative insights on moving from authoritarian styles to calm authority. The duo highlights the importance of humility in breaking generational patterns and fostering healthier parent-child relationships. They discuss practical strategies for managing emotions, advocating for respectful disagreements, and the significance of teaching autonomy. Together, they redefine masculinity, blending strength with vulnerability to enhance family dynamics.
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Change Yourself To Change Behavior
- Kirk realized he couldn't change his son by controlling him and instead focused on controlling his own behavior.
- That self-work transformed their relationship and reduced conflict without punishing the child.
A Distinct Shift In Parenting
- Casey remembers a distinct shift around ages eight to ten when Kirk moved away from harsher patterns.
- That humility and change improved their relationship and modeled new ways to handle behavior.
Autonomy Beats Punishment
- Strong-willed kids often value autonomy more than possessions, so consequences can fail.
- Effective parenting balances calm authority and empathy rather than swinging to extremes.