Lessons from my dying Grandad - solo note to self episode

Today I reflect on the profound lessons that I learned from accompanying my Grandad through his final year. 

I opens my heart to share 7 invaluable lessons that witnessing my Grandad journey taught me about life, love, and the courage it takes to sit with discomfort.

I filmed this one day after the 2 year anniversary of my Grandad dying. Recounting my weekly visits to his care home, including moments of silence, discomfort, and compassionate presence. How these visits transformed my understanding of both holding space for others and navigating my own complex emotions.

Takeaways

• Being present opens us to joy and love.
• Meeting others where they are is crucial.
• Silence can foster deeper connections.
• Discomfort can lead to profound moments.
• Love your loved ones like tomorrow may never come.
• Joy can coexist with grief and pain.
• Never take time with loved ones for granted.
• Constant action distracts from true connection.
• Finding comfort in silence is a valuable skill.
• Grief can teach us about resilience and love.

Whether you’re caring for a loved one, grieving, or simply seeking to live a more mindful life, these lessons are for us all. 

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The theme music for Death on the Daily is ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Set Free by Katie Gray⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which is used with artist's permission. 

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