Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens

210: Dealing with Disappointing College Admissions. What Helps?

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Mar 11, 2025
High school seniors face an emotional rollercoaster during college admissions, with pressures and disappointments weighing heavily. The discussion emphasizes the importance of empathy while navigating setbacks. Parents learn how to support their children through these challenges, highlighting strategies for maintaining emotional well-being. The conversation also touches on alternative paths and the need for meaningful dialogue between parents and teens. Resilience is key as they explore what truly matters beyond prestigious college acceptance.
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ADVICE

Managing College Admission Expectations

  • Prepare kids for the opaque college admission process.
  • Explain that colleges have specific criteria, and admission isn't solely merit-based.
INSIGHT

Increased Competition in College Admissions

  • College admissions are significantly more competitive now than in the past.
  • Lisa Damour shares her experience at Yale, highlighting the increased difficulty.
ADVICE

Responding to Acceptances and Rejections

  • Celebrate college acceptances enthusiastically at home.
  • Advise kids to be gracious and understanding with friends who weren't accepted.
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