The Spiritual Perspective From the Archive: Are We Asking Too Much of Our Relationships? Get The Spiritual Perspective
Jul 12, 2025
Explore the myth that a partner's role is solely to make us happy. Discover why chasing the idea of a 'better' partner leads to similar issues. The conversation highlights that everyone has flaws and challenges the illusion of perfection. Prioritizing shared values over appearances is proposed as the true foundation for meaningful connections. Reflect on whether flaws in relationships are obstacles or chances for deeper growth.
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Better Isn't Always External
- Looking for a "better" partner based on looks or resources is often misguided.
- True improvement doesn't necessarily come from external attributes like attractiveness or wealth.
The Myth of the Perfect Partner
- We wrongly expect partners to be flawless sources of happiness.
- This illusion makes us overlook that everyone has flaws, including ourselves.
Flaws Are Universal
- Flaws exist in every person equally, even those we have yet to meet.
- Misjudging new partners as less flawed keeps us cycling through the same challenges.