#443: What Building Your Own Coffin Teaches You About Life, Death, and Meaning
Sep 24, 2018
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Writer David Giffels recounts building a coffin with his father, reflecting on life lessons. They discuss Rust Belt loyalty, sports resilience, and the profound experience of coffin-building. Exploring themes of aging, mortality, and family bonds, the conversation touches on near victories in sports, Ohio humor, and navigating midlife challenges.
Building a coffin with a family member can lead to deep reflections on life, death, and aging.
Exploring green burial options reflects evolving attitudes towards death and environmental consciousness.
Deep dives
Building a Coffin with a Twist
The podcast episode delves into the unique experience of the host, David Giffles, who embarked on a special project with his 81-year-old father: building their own coffin. This unconventional endeavor emerged not just from a practical need but from a lighthearted debate about burial preferences and family traditions. As they navigated the construction process, unexpected practical considerations arose, such as the need to adhere to standard coffin dimensions for burial requirements.
Reflections on Mortality and Meaning
The discussion extends to deeper reflections on mortality and the rituals surrounding death. Exploring themes of life's impermanence and the cultural significance of burial practices, the podcast delves into the evolving attitudes towards death and the environment. The conversation touches upon the emerging trend of green burials and the spiritual and practical considerations of eco-friendly interment options.
Family Bonding and Unconventional Storage Solutions
Amidst the profound discussions on mortality, the podcast also highlights moments of family bonding and humor. The host's project of building a coffin with his father not only strengthened their relationship but also led to creative and unconventional solutions, such as repurposing the coffin as a bookcase. The blend of practicality and humor in dealing with sensitive subjects adds a unique and heartwarming twist to the narrative.
Unexpected Endings and Reflective Hilarity
The podcast episode concludes with unexpected twists involving the host's coffin-turned-bookcase and the lighthearted yet poignant reminders of mortality. From attached laminated cards to humorous anecdotes, the story unfolds with a blend of reflection and hilarity, offering a fresh perspective on life, death, and the meaningful moments that emerge from seemingly mundane experiences.
When David Giffels was 50 years old and completely healthy, he decided to build his own coffin with his 81-year-old, master craftsman father. Why? Well, I ask him that on today’s podcast. David Giffels is a writer who previously published a book of essays about growing up in the Rust Belt of Ohio in the 1970s. That title is called The Hard Way on Purpose. In his latest book, Furnishing Eternity: A Father, a Son, a Coffin, and a Measure of Life, he recounts the experience of building his own coffin with his father and the lessons about life, aging, and death that he picked up along the way.
We begin the show discussing why many in the Rust Belt live by the motto, "The Hard Way on Purpose," and how it manifests itself in their undying loyalty to their sports teams that come up short year after year. We then shift gears and discuss David’s project of building his own casket with his dad, the expectations he had going into it, and why lying in your own coffin is, unfortunately, not as profound of an experience as you’d think it would be.