The Art of Love With Lucia How To Get Him To Commit
Jun 24, 2016
Discover the secrets to gaining a man's commitment without losing your own identity. Learn how respect and daily actions can boost attraction and emotional investment. Explore tactical advice on creating desirable absence and the importance of timing in love. Understand the nuances of cohabitation and how to navigate conversations about moving in together while maintaining your leverage. Get ready for insightful tips that can transform your love life!
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Respect Drives Male Attachment
- Men prioritize respect and competence more than overt declarations of love.
- Raising his interest level is key to making him fall deeper and stay committed.
Ask Permission, Don't Correct
- Avoid correcting or micromanaging his efforts; ask permission before suggesting changes.
- Use phrases like "Can I make a suggestion?" to keep him feeling competent and respected.
Dishwasher Reorganized, Confidence Eroded
- A man in divorce felt like a "moron" because his wife kept reorganizing his dishwasher work.
- Small repeated corrections built resentment that contributed to their split.