Since You Asked with Lori Gottlieb and Gretchen Rubin Can a Marriage Survive When a Partner Won’t Change? Plus: Mel Robbins Wants Our Advice!
Oct 7, 2025
The hosts tackle the complexities of relationships, discussing whether a partner should accept unchangeable traits in their significant other. They also explore the aftermath of cheating within friend groups and the unexpected tension over dishwasher loading techniques. Mel Robbins joins to seek advice on overcoming guilt about resting, prompting discussions on scheduling downtime and prioritizing self-care. It's a lively mix of personal dilemmas and practical solutions!
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When Past Hurt Doesn't Predict Others
- A listener considered warning a coworker about a mismatched engagement but ultimately didn't intervene.
- Their abstention taught them that personal experience doesn't predict others' outcomes.
Discuss Cheating's Impact Openly
- Talk with your partner about how the cheating incident affected your relationship before deciding to forgive.
- Ask direct questions about fidelity, boundaries, and how each of you interprets the event.
Be Civil Without Endorsing Behavior
- Separate being civil with roommates from condoning their actions and communicate that to your hurt friend.
- Offer clear reassurance and set boundaries so your friend doesn't feel betrayed by your boyfriend's social choices.
