

461: The Power of Showing Up, with Tina Payne Bryson
Mar 30, 2020
Tina Payne Bryson, a psychotherapist and founder of The Center for Connection, shares insights on the critical importance of parental presence in kids' lives. She highlights that simply showing up emotionally can significantly influence a child’s development. The discussion tackles the distinction between being seen and shamed, the drawbacks of intensive parenting, and practical actions that empower children. Listeners will discover how empathy, authenticity, and healthy communication foster stronger family bonds and emotional resilience in children.
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Secure Attachment
- A key predictor of children's well-being is secure attachment with at least one adult.
- Secure attachment means children trust their needs will be met quickly and sensitively.
The Four S's
- Focus on the four S's: safe, seen, soothed, and secure.
- Meeting a child's needs for safety, being seen, and being soothed fosters secure attachment.
Being Seen
- Truly seeing a child means understanding their thoughts and feelings.
- Dismissing or denying children's feelings can lead to them distrusting their own emotions.