983: Making the Most of Your Limited Time Before Death with Jodi Wellman
Jul 31, 2024
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Jodi Wellman, a former corporate executive and executive coach with a Master's in Applied Positive Psychology, discusses the liberating power of reflecting on mortality. She emphasizes the need to befriend the Grim Reaper to truly embrace life. Listeners will learn how to live ‘astonishingly alive’ by prioritizing joy and meaning. Through personal anecdotes, Jodi inspires a shift in perspective, highlighting gratitude and community while encouraging small, intentional actions to enrich our everyday experiences.
Reflecting on our mortality encourages individuals to prioritize meaningful experiences and live free from regret.
Embracing temporal scarcity helps people break free from routine, enhancing life satisfaction through intentional pursuit of joy and vitality.
Deep dives
Embracing Mortality for Inspired Living
Recognizing our finite time on Earth can act as a powerful motivator for transformation. By periodically reflecting on the countdown of our remaining Mondays, individuals can confront their mortality, reigniting their passion for life and prompting them to prioritize experiences that truly matter. This perspective encourages a proactive approach to living, urging people to shift their focus away from urgent demands that dilute their potential for joy. The notion of befriending the Grim Reaper is emphasized as a means of defanging the fear surrounding death and utilizing it as a tool to enhance the quality of life.
The Value of Temporal Scarcity
Temporal scarcity refers to the heightened awareness of our limited resources, which can lead to increased appreciation and urgency in life decisions. When people are reminded that their time is finite, they are often spurred into taking action towards their goals, whether personal or professional. This psychological principle validates the idea that setting deadlines can be incredibly effective; without them, individuals risk drifting along without achieving their true desires. Recognizing the number of Mondays left in one’s life can catalyze critical reflection on what truly brings joy and fulfillment.
Crafting a Life of Meaning and Vitality
A fulfilling life is one that balances both meaning and vitality, combining significant experiences with enjoyment. Individuals often find themselves either in a rut of routine or overwhelmingly busy without deriving joy from their activities. The importance of assessing and refining one's priorities is highlighted, advocating for the inclusion of small, joyful activities amidst busier life stages. By intentionally seeking out more vitality, such as trying new hobbies or planning enjoyable outings, individuals can enhance their overall life satisfaction.
Wake-Up Calls and Legacy Thinking
Personal crises, such as health scares, often act as catalysts that pivot individuals towards meaningful change in their lives. These moments of clarity can lead to a reevaluation of what's important, pushing individuals to pursue their passions, initiate charitable efforts, or prioritize relationships. The concept of legacy thinking encourages reflection on how one wishes to be remembered, creating a guide for personal and professional decisions made today. This approach promotes a proactive stance on crafting a life rich in experiences that resonate with one's values, rather than one spent in passive deferment.
Jodi Wellman is a former corporate executive turned executive coach. She has a Master’s in Applied Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania, where she is an instructor in the Master’s program and a trainer in the world-renowned Penn Resilience Program. She is a Professional Certified Coach with the ICF and a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach from CTI.
She has coached and spoken with clients like American Express, Fidelity, pwc, Royal Bank of Canada, BMW, and more, and runs her own business, Four Thousand Mondays. She’s also known for her inspirational TEDx Talk on how death can bring you back to life. She lives between Palm Springs and Chicago with her husband and cat, Andy.