

The Relationship Sabotage Loop (and how to break it)
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If you’ve ever felt like the harder you try with a man, the further he seems to pull away—you’re not imagining it. In this episode, I’m breaking down The Sabotage Loop: the unconscious pattern that keeps high-achieving women chasing men instead of choosing them.
You’ll hear why chasing creates distance, how it keeps you stuck in what I call Problem Structure, and the exact mindset shift to move into Creation Structure—where you become magnetic to emotionally available men who actually want to invest in you.
What You’ll Learn:
- The real reason chasing creates emotional distance (and it’s not about playing games).
- The hidden ways high-functioning women “chase” without realizing it.
- How Problem Structure keeps you looping in the same unsatisfying patterns.
- What Creation Structure is and why it’s the key to creating the relationship you truly want.
- The simple shift that stops the loop and puts you back in your power as the chooser.
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