Dating After Divorce: I Was a ‘Nice Guy’—And It Cost Me Everything w/ Philip Botha

Divorce can be one of the most challenging transitions in a man's life. The journey is full of uncertainty and self-discovery. It begins with emotional recovery and continues as you step back into the dating world. Along the way, you experience growth and change. On this episode of the Men’s Therapy Podcast, host Marc Azoulay sits down with returning guest Philip Botha. He discusses life after divorce and toxic marriage signs. He talks about the impact of masculinity in relationships.

Philip is a coach and former entrepreneur who opens up about his personal experience with divorce. “I was very much a ‘nice guy’ going into my marriage,” he reflects. “I didn’t understand what I needed in a relationship or what my non-negotiables were.” Philip highlights the complexities of nice guy syndrome. He describes how the pandemic catalyzed clarity. It exposed toxic patterns in his marriage that ultimately led to its end.

Despite the difficulties, Philip sees his divorce as a turning point. “There’s no failure in ending something that no longer serves you. The real failure is not learning from it,” he shares. His story is one of resilience, and it offers valuable lessons for men facing similar struggles.