

Sam Wells: Being With
6 snips Nov 19, 2024
In this episode, Rev. Dr. Sam Wells, vicar at St. Martin-in-the-Fields and a prominent theologian, dives deep into the essence of 'being with.' He discusses the challenges of staying close to those in pain without the impulse to fix their problems. Sam beautifully illustrates the unexpected strength found in simply showing up for others. He emphasizes that love can be tough, the importance of surrendering the need to help, and highlights the profound beauty in shared moments of presence during life's darker times.
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Family History of Suffering
- Sam Wells shares a poignant story about his mother's escape from Nazi Germany as a child.
- This experience shaped his understanding of suffering and faith.
Suffering as the Norm
- Sam's upbringing, marked by his mother's prolonged illness, normalized suffering.
- This perspective contrasts with the common narrative of suffering as an anomaly.
The Power of Being With
- Being present with someone in their suffering is more important than trying to fix it.
- True pastoral care involves shared presence, not problem-solving.