

Impartiality — Connection Course Series #3
363 snips Nov 5, 2020
Discover the transformative power of impartiality in relationships and business. Explore how relinquishing control can enhance connections and foster mutual respect. Delve into the interplay between shame and self-perception, learning how genuine engagement combats manipulation. Face fears and embrace uncertainty to navigate life's unpredictability. Hear personal anecdotes that illustrate the difference between apathy and real vulnerability. Finally, understand the dangers of short-term strategies and the importance of nurturing healthy, long-term relationships.
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Impartiality Defined
- Impartiality in conversations means not having an agenda for the other person, trusting their wisdom.
- By speaking to their wise part, you encourage wisdom to emerge, avoiding the reinforcement of negative self-image.
Shame-Action Cycle
- Shame, the feeling of not being good enough, often causes actions that hinder happiness, not the other way around.
- Removing shame can make positive actions like working out or connecting with others easier.
The Nature of Impartiality
- True impartiality is impossible; humans always have wants and desires driving their actions.
- Goals are acceptable; impartiality focuses on avoiding imposing your goals on others in conversations.