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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel
Esther Calling - Am I Just Your Placeholder?
Jan 8, 2024
In this episode, Esther speaks to a woman who has a pattern of being friend-zoned in her relationships. They explore the impact of feeling unloved and being used as a placeholder, discuss the influence of mother figures on self-worth, and provide tips on navigating dating pressure and choosing one's path.
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- Childhood experiences greatly influence adult relationships and can perpetuate self-doubt and negative beliefs.
- Shifting one's perspective and focusing on personal enjoyment and self-worth can lead to healthier dating experiences.
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Struggling with feelings of not being enough and unlovability
The podcast episode features a 33-year-old woman who shares her struggles with feelings of not being enough and believing she is unlovable. She discusses her experiences in dating, where she often feels like a placeholder while the men she dates choose other partners. These experiences, coupled with a challenging upbringing and lack of maternal love, have deeply affected her self-esteem and sense of worthiness.
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